It’s not an act of love if you make her.

If your partner tries to coerce you into sex because they love you so much or want to feel connected to you remember that that is bullshit.
Coerced sex (whether by begging, making you seem abnormal/broken/unloving/wrong for not wanting sex, holding how long it’s been against you, etc etc etc) is not consensual sex.
Non-consensual sex is not an act of love or connection; it is an act of greed and selfishness by one person over another. It is a violation of bodily autonomy.
There is no connection in sex or any other physically intimate activity if one person is left feeling used.
And because people get offended when I say this, I will keep shouting it from the rooftops until women stop replying that it is happening to them.

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