Retraining how I orgasm

I learned to orgasm very young. For the first part of my life I could only orgasm laying on my stomach. I did learn how to get myself off laying on my back during pregnancy. Anyway- I’ve never been able to fully orgasm with a partner. I get self conscious of how ridged my legs have to be- are there women who can cum in any position? Can I re learn how to orgasm without tensing my legs so drastically? I don’t mind using toys, but the most I can get to is a build up and then it’s almost torture to continue so I stop. I’ve also been told I have an overly tight pelvic floor so could that be making it impossible to orgasm in a somewhat relaxed state or in any other position? Share all your tips cause I’m ready to learn/try anything.

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