Thinking of ending it

Kinda weird situation. Been casually dating this girl for a while now (6ish months) and we both consider ourselves dating each other and we both really do love each other. I say casually because we only see each other like 1-2 times a month due to jobs, and living situations, and other things that make it hard to see each other. At the beginning we saw each other lots of weekends, she stayed with me a lot. But I’m realizing I don’t think I’ll be able to come home and speak freely if we were to be married in life and I’m not sure that’s very healthy. I also think my job and how invested into my own family who lives about two hours away I am invested in. I’m never going to give them up. I work like 55 hours or more a week and I think it bothers her because I have to work so much. I’m just not sure anymore, but I really do love her, but not happy that every time stuff with my job or family comes up she gets into this mood that she ends up pissy

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Kinda weird situation. Been casually dating this girl for a while now (6ish months) and we both consider ourselves dating each other and we both really do love each other. I say casually because we only see each other like 1-2 times a month due to jobs, and living situations, and other things that make it hard to see each other. At the beginning we saw each other lots of weekends, she stayed with me a lot. But I’m realizing I don’t think I’ll be able to come home and speak freely if we were to be married in life and I’m not sure that’s very healthy. I also think my job and how invested into my own family who lives about two hours away I am invested in. I’m never going to give them up. I work like 55 hours or more a week and I think it bothers her because I have to work so much. I’m just not sure anymore, but I really do love her, but not happy that every time stuff with my job or family comes up she gets into this mood that she ends up pissy

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